A dear one told me excitedly how she admired a man who gave everything to his ex-wife: all his money, his car, everything. My stomach turns upside down hearing this. I realized that I had been living earlier partnerships in the belief that “Love is giving everything.” I was in a consciousness of lack and anxiety. In my mother’s womb, I had already learned that love was “to respond to someone with adrenalin, noradrenalin, cortisol and dopamine”—in short, the biochemical cocktail of drama. No wonder I…..